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I: OKAY AS YOU KNOW, YOU‘VE READ THE DOCUMENTATION I‘VE SENT
YOU ON THIS PROJECT, WE‘RE LOOKING AT HOW PARENTS TEACH VALUES
AND RESPONSIBILITIES IN THIS CULTURE, SOMETIMES BELOVED PARENTS
FEEL THEY ARE COMPLETELY...
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K: EXACTLY, I LET THEM KNOW I‘M ON THEIR SIDE BUT I ALSO GIVE THEM
AN ALTERNATIVE WAY TO LOOK AT THINGS BECAUSE WHAT I FIND IS
THAT, WHEN YOU KNOW, THINGS THAT THEY WATCH ON TELEVISION,
THEY TRY TELL THEM THAT THIS IS...
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I: GREAT, GREAT, SO DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU‘VE BEEN IMPACTED BY THE
K: YES DEFINITELY THERE ARE CERTAIN SHOWS ON OR CHANNELS THAT I
CAN‘T WATCH BECAUSE THEIR SO BOMBARDED. THEIR FRIENDS WEAR
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THEM TO UNDERSTAND WHY BEING A CONSUMER FOR AN ITEM IS NOT
I: THAT‘S GREAT. YOU‘RE A GREAT RESOURCE BECAUSE YOU HAVE
CHILDREN RANGING IN AGE FROM 21 TO 4. SO, YOU‘VE REALLY GOT A
LONG HISTORY DEALING...
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K: NO I DID NOT. BUT WHAT I DID WAS SET UP A PLAY DATE WITH THE
I: I SEE. GOOD. SO THOSE ARE THE QUESTIONS IN THE AREA OF
STRUGGLES. IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE THAT YOU‘D LIKE TO ADD TO
K: NO NOT AT THIS...
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MIDNIGHT SHOW, SESEME STREET. WHEN WE‘RE WATCHING MOVIES
THAT ADULTS CAN WATCH, YOU KNOW, ACTION, DRAMA, MAYBE
THRILLERS, THE KIDS ARE NEVER AROUND. THEY‘RE IN THEIR BEDS. WE
TRY OUR VERY BEST TO PROTECT THEM IN OUR...
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I: OKAY SO, THEN, VALUES IS TAUGHT WITH YOUR RELIGION AND ITS AN
OPEN CONVERSATION WITH YOUR RELIGION. WHAT ABOUT
RESPONSIBILITY WITH THINGS LIKE CHORES AND OTHER THINGS, HOW
DO YOU TEACH RESPONSIBILITY?
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GOOD TO BE RESPONSIBLE. IF IT‘S A LOT OF WORK, THEN ITS OKAY
BECAUSE THAT ALLOWS THEM TO TIE THE WORK IN WITH THE MONEY
AND THE VALUE OF THE MONEY.
I: SO YOU WANT THEM TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE JOY OF BEING
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I: OKAY. SPELLING: SAMONIA, SHAMARRA, RUDY, JUDY
IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE THAT THINK WOULD BE HELPFUL TO OTHER
K: WELL TO NOT TAKE THE ANGER OF YOUR CHILDREN PERSONALLY.
AND TO NOT BE SO HARD ON THEM. AND TO NOT...
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K: GIVE YOUR KIDS A HUG EVEN WHEN YOU‘RE MAD AT THEM.
ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY‘RE TEENAGERS.
I: KIND OF HARD WITH THE TEENAGERS, HUH.
Transcript two: 09/12/2008, interviewed in person in Studio City, CA
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having him endure that made me want to spend more on him to make up for it. And I see
that in other parents and it‘s sad but it‘s the way that we love sometimes when we think that
that‘s what love is.
I: So out of...
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M: Yeah. She wanted the brick baby. She said ‗I want that.‘ And I said ‗are you looking at
that?‘ Kinda funny, isn‘t it?
I: Very funny. So how is, what is the way you raise your children. How would you...
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the grocery store with me, and if I buy something, well like with Rosemary, I never buy her
I: So you‘ve gone to the absolute extreme.
M: Well, even with Owen, I never bought him any clothes. Boxes...
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don‘t have the money, it‘s like that wouldn‘t be a smart place for us to put our money right
now. But her, a my mother in law ended up saying she‘d pay for it so she paid for it.
M: Yeah, and it was about...
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I: Talk about wise choice for us. How does that work in the way you teach your children.
M: Okay, you know so yeah, I don‘t ever want to say I‘m broke, I don‘t have enough money
because that‘s putting...
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